A woman's jealousy can get way OUT of CONTROL. I am a woman and have even noticed the way woman get and all I do is get embarrassed for her and myself. It is because of women like this that men complain about anything we bring up. That is why they jump to we are jealous or grilling them- when we are just asking innocent questions and just wondering about something.
I do want to point out that jealousy is natural and if you say you are never jealous then you are lying or you have never cared for anyone beyond just a fuck. (Men or Women)
Naturally when someone is jealous its most likely because they have issues with themselves. They are insecure about their looks or have been abused mentally/verbally and physically. There are many reasons behind it. If you love the person you should first see where it comes from. Have a heart to heart conversation. If she is acting crazy and you only been talking for like a month then maybe you should tell her its over and tell her why.
But lets talk about the women who are jealous and don't really have a good reason but that they're crazy and insecure. These women make a woman like me look bad because I take pride in handling situations like this the best way you can in a relationship. Which is conversation. People are like it don't help or that is to much work and if you think that, then why are you in a relationship in the fucking first place?!
I myself have been in situations with my bf and because he stands his ground and don't take no bullshit just like me, we collide a lot of times. But we talk about it after we cool off.
Woman you SHOULD NOT push the issue at the time it occurs. You should allow him to be angry. If you are in public you should most definitely put it aside keep it on hold and talk about it later. Because there is nothing worse then arguing and putting your business out there. I don't like it and so therefore when I feel myself getting furious I have to stop and drop it for the time being.
I have dealt with jealousy from other chicks A LOT! smh...one i will never forget is my EX FRIEND and his wife... I was friends with a guy for about 5 years and I am pretty sure he was with the same girl for the same amount of time I knew him. Well we lost touch and he found me on facebook. We was talking and catching up. He told me he got his girl pregnant and then married her. I thought it was awesome. He told me about her since way back that she was way jealous. I had never met her because she didn't even like him being friends with other women. They always had petty fights that was not even necessary. He is or was in the army when we got back in touch and so when he came home. I texted him and his wife was texting me and pretending to be him I knew it was not him LOL anyways I was like is this his wife and she finally said something instead of hanging up on me like she had been doing the other 5 or so times. She said I had no life texting a married man I laughed at her and called her out on what she was. Which is a jealous bitch who has a man who loves her and that baby to death! but will loose him with that jealousy. I was like " I have known him for years and never thought of him as nothing but a friend and i myself was with someone who loved very much (the man I am with now)" Needless to say she kept on and I hung up on her. I never heard from my friend again. Like most of my male friends they just stop talking to me to avoid the drama.
Most men do this. They just stop talking to there friends to avoid drama even male friends that their girl doesn't like. Seriously wtf? I can't believe that bullshit. The only thing I do not like is my man talking to women he has fucked, liked, dated, and/or had a relationship with. But that is understandable. Not random people for no reason. That is ridiculous.
I think you women need to love yourselves and focus on you before you get involved with someone.
If you can't love yourself, how in the hell you expect someone else too? -RuPaul❤
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