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My thoughts on Emotions....

Ladies are always called emotional for crying or being jealous for example. BUT men get "emotional" as well they get angry and jealous as well. What women do (Most women) is do the weakest of emotions I mean that society has told us. Emotional means showing more than one emotion if a girl is simply sad and crying she is not being emotional. And if a man is being angry and that is it he is not being emotional. He is being angry. DUH

LOL I am sorry but I hate that males and females judge so much of each other when we are the same and what one sex doesn't have that is what the other one brings to the table. In reality we equal each other. Yin and Yang. We are all created of different emotions and grow up being able to only show those emotions even when they are not appropriate for what is going on at that moment.

I was asked if love was an emotion and I don't think it really is fair to ask ME that because I believe in love so much. I put love on a peddle stool because it really is the key to a person's heart, mind and soul. Some of you are laughing or/& think I am full of shit but think about it. Think about the people in your life, think about you! The love you have received and the love you haven't from people that were supposed to be there and weren't. Maybe even the people that were there but didn't show you affection or maybe the wrong affection.

Life to me is a web of things connected to another. And love is one of the things in our life that creates the links to the web. We act a certain way because of what we know of love or what we don't know. I know what I am talking about. I have only gave my heart to one man really... and it still belongs to him because it was hard enough giving to him and honestly it is hard to take it away. He is an ex now and what grew us apart is our views on a relationship and love. I mean that is what I think what went wrong anyways. I see love with someone as a pathway to ones heart, mind and soul. And I see a relationship as a companionship and loving friendship.

Emotions get the best of us and in relationships people start seeing it as a job and when you do that you are downgrading the worth of the relationship you are in and both of you should figure out if you want to fix it or move on. Don't let your emotions run you, check your emotions. It is okay to express them but try to think or at least know when you need a moment to get clarity. Because any emotion can cloud your mind which in turn can cloud your judgement of things.

Think about it...

Just some thoughts I had in my head. Sex story next time I promise <3

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-Paulina The Writer








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