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Baby THEN Marriage equals grown?

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I hear it mostly from women that they think they are grown and shit because they have a baby and THEN getting married. Smh... News flash just because you got yourself knocked up and now you feel like it was fate or pressured to marry the baby-daddy do not fucking mean you are a grown ass woman.

Being a grown as woman consist of many things other then having a baby and being married. It has to do with you personally. Like how much have you grown and what you are doing for yourself as far as jobs and school. What goals you have and what you are doing to get those goals accomplished.

(Not trying to bash on young mothers) Every girl who is my age or younger that has a baby has this fucking attitude about being grown. I be putting them in they place when they try to throw that in my face because someone fucking should! Obviously someone put in their head that they were grown cause they were a mommy now. BULL FUCKING SHIT!

I know someone at my friends job who always talking down about people. Saying they don't know nothing about being grown because they don't have no responsibilities and therefore don't know nothing about life. She is 21. No one really likes her because she thinks she is better then everyone else. My friend is the only one who has told her that she doesn't like her and why. She insist that she means nothing by it but that it is just a fact.

So not only do people think this way when they have a child they really fucking believe it too. (SMH) thats a damn shame.

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