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Are you pregant or not! Make up your damn mind!

First of all if you become offended from what I am saying then you should probably get the fuck off my page..because you are only going to get more butt-hurt.

Now first of all I am not saying all women/girls do this but for the most part girls do this. I have seen it myself. Every since I started high school there were girls who were having sex for the first time and instantly were like they're pregnant. Smh. At first I was like omg! its that easy. Some even used protection and thought this. I didn't know any better so I believed them but then shit didn't make sense. Some girls were not sure about the facts about being pregnant and because they were lying they had troubles making up the stories lmao. (I was with her when she got herself the pregnancy test and she would not let me see it -she just played happy)This one girl in particular was like she hates having her period and I was like you have your period? She looked scared at her slip of the tongue and explained to me that you can have your period when you are pregnant. At first I refrained from laughing in her face. Instead I decided to ask her questions, she was a good friend (so I thought at the time). So I asked well have you asked the doctor because there is more to then that, she replied in a confused voice "why would I ask a doctor. I don't even have one" (I knew about this information from reading and I asked my mom as well in the past) I said well because you have to find out by a doctor if bleeding is okay because it can also mean you baby is in danger or most likely you are not pregnant. It seemed I pushed her into a corner and she started ignoring me and walking away. I asked how her mom felt about her being pregnant because her mom was super strict and would not be the kind to take that news lightly. She replied "she loves the thought of being a grandma." I did not believe that but that was hardly something I can compare to her lying about a baby because maybe she hasn't told her mom or embarrassed that her mom is angry. Later I heard she fell and lost it. She came to school the next day happy and like nothing ever happened. Her so called best friend was saying it was all fake and made up and the pregnancy test was a false and she was scared to admit it because she was so sure.

Another girl became pregnant and she was so sure of it. She had protection and said there is still a chance which is very true. This girl went all out. She talked about baby clothes and what she wants to do after the baby born. How the baby-daddy will be happy for them and they were going to get married. BUT word was they were going to break up because he didn't like how needy she was. Then this pregnancy came up, it just seemed convenient and basically in her favor. A week later he found out what she was telling everyone and they had a big argument and then another week or so she "lost her baby"

Basically I am not happy at chicks fucking lying about there pregnancy and even more unhappy with motherfuckers faking miscarriages and abortions. That shit is not easy to get over and takes a tole on your body physically and mentally. How dare you fake those things for your own self pity. I feel if you have to fake pregnancy and then fake losing the baby you are pathetic. You need to wake the fuck up because you gone miss with the wrong person lying about shit like that and never have that someones trust again.

Honestly in my teen years I wouldn't tell no one. There was one time I thought I was pregnant and I was late on my period and everything. I told one person and that was it. Even then I was scared and didn't know what to do. I didn't want to tell the guy cause what if it was a false alarm.

See I ain't a grimy bitch. I ain't gone lie to a dude and say all this shit that I don't know for sure yet! Then again my mom has always said I act older then my age. If you think you grown enough to have sex then you should be grown enough to handle situations like that at least to a better standard then all that bullshit. But you know what I have a friend who works with a female who just pulled a stunt like this and that shit got my friend upset because her sister just miscarried and she is taking it real hard.

No wonder men run the minute they here "I'm pregnant" such a shame...

Grow the fuck up.

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