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Judgemental Much?

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So I have been judged before, I am no stranger to that. Everyone will judge you in life. Your friends, bf/gf, co-workers and even family. Sometimes family are the ones who judge you the most and push you the hardest. Sometimes they don't get you and because you are different from them they judge you because that what happened to them when they tried to be different. The Big Huge difference is that you are going through with it. And for that reason they envy you.

I have always been respectful and outspoken but sometime you can't do one with out contradicting the other. So sometimes I don't say whats on my mind due to respecting that person. But then they try to walk all over you like you some kind of weak person cause you don't have no opinion. So you see my dilemma right?

When it comes to my facebook page www.facebook.com/SupahCrazyWeirdDuh I speak openly whenever I feel like it. Its a page where I speak about things that have to do with sex, sexuality or relationships & love. Which apparently does not make me look very much like, a lady. This I find quiet amusing because how is it that men can talk about sex and in a degrading way 100% of the time and getting put down way worse then a man would? Hmph.. Very strange and Very double standard. People have even gone as far as report me and such and has already got my page deleted once before. smh But that is okay because you can't stop me or the next outspoken person that comes along.

People even judge you for your race and what race your dating. Isn't that sad? 2011 and we are still having these issues. Damn fucking shame. We over here going broke and in a recession and over here still worrying about shit that don't have to do with the bigger picture. I deal with this issue because I date black men for the most part and people think I am white and so white and black people be having an issue with me and my man. I really think you should stop fucking worrying about who I am dating and worry about getting you someone to date. I'm assuming you don't have a man cause you have no life, I mean since you all up in mine that is the case right? I am just saying. LOL

We all judge but its important to catch ourselves before we get crazy and out of control with it.
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