Have you ever had that one friend who wouldn't go away?

Have you ever had that one friend who wouldn't go away and over the years dropped hints that he liked you - even loves you but you ignored them because you were just not interested in him? And through these years you dated other people but when that didn't work; with your broken heart you gave that friend a chance? You played him, you put him down and degraded him as a man. All to feed into your self-esteem and yet through all that he didn't go anywhere. He became a doormat, more specifically your doormat.

(And now you depend on degrading him to have and keep your self-esteem)

Then before you knew it you are saying "I do." You figure you'll fall in love eventually because you do love him as a friend and he's the only man who puts up with all your shit, hasn't left, and still loves you. So why not? So due to all that everyday you have to convince yourself and others you love him; in any little way you can.

Have you ever had that friend?

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